before getting 498a and DV cases on you

Last updated by Digangana Suryavanshi
Visit http://saveindianfamily.org/
Join www.facebook.com/groups/498aIPC/
  https://www.facebook.com/SIFFNGO
Register your Details Provide your details - important for Research
READ 1. SIF-Book: How to Get Peace, when marriage is on rocks, available at https://www.facebook.com/groups/498aIPC/444002582299099/
  2. MRA's blogs: - Virag Dhulia, Jinesh Zaveri, http://terminatorak.wordpress.com/
  3. YouTube: TV Interviews of MRAs
  4. Books: Myth of Male Power; Secrets of Manhood by Virag.
Know your Guides Rukma Chary +919535109509
  Anil Kumar +91 9845143724
  And also SIFF helpline of other cities where cases are filed.
DOs 1. Be a Men's Rights Activists - Fight For YOUR rights every second.
  2. Don't FIGHT against the SYSTEM- ENGAGE with the System
  3. Fight an Extremely Defensive Battle initially.
  4. The battle is 90% Mind game and 10% Legal.
  5. Fight a battle of Attrition, not a battle of Escalation.
  6. Don't REACT, Be PATIENT, Just RESPOND.
  7. Protect important documents and evidence first.
  8. Take control of your cases, Don’t leave everything to the Lawyer
  9. Live life at a time - Plan for 15 days.
  10. Find and help your Buddies, do blogging. Write letters/comments to media.
  11. Be regular to the meetings.
  12. Participate in Letter Campaigns.
  13. Attend and contribute to DHARNAS
DON'Ts 1. Don't expect easy/quick/safe exit from marital problems.
  2. Don't expect MAGIC to happen.
  3. Don't apply divorce.
  4. Don't have high EXPECTATIONS from judiciary, police & lawyers.
  5. Don't blind believe Lawyers & Police.
  6. Do not quit your Job.
Important Dates 1. Your Birthday –Share & celebrate with us.
  2. International Men's Day - 19th November.
  3. Father's Day - Third Sunday of every June.
  4. Children's Day - 14th Nov.
Beware and understand Bail, DV Act, 2005, 498a IPC, CrPC 125, IrBM, CrPC 41B, CrPC 488, 375 IPC, HMA 24,